Okay today is definately another Wednesday... and Mrs Toke Ayida has posted yet another interesting episode of her weekly vlog!!!! I was soo happy when I heard her and her long time boo tied the knot.... almost blushing my cheeks out like it was my own wedding. I really do wish i had something like that...a long time relationship.....12 years no be beans!!!
TOKE SAID!!!!
Okay today's vlog she talked about unnecessary haters.... people that are haters and refuse to acknowledge the fact that they are haters. People that pick up grudges with other people for the most stupid reasons, and she was saying that there's no use carrying a grudge over someone who does not know that you exist.
Toke emphasized the 'stupidity' in being a delusional hater!!!!! she said if you do not know how the person sleeps, or lives or eats you do not have a right to be upset with them over stupid reasons.
In her words 'if you are a victim of such haters, you should ask God to bless them and also pray they find something to keep them busy since they are so jobless'
Life is too short too be squeezing your face because of how someone looks .... she said leave the unhappy zone and walk to the happy zone.... because whether you hate from now till tomorrow the person doesnt care...
WHAT I THINK
I think she is totally right!!!! No one should be hated on or be a hater for stupid reasons and if really you do not have a real friendship.. then its yourself you are doing ooo
Moreover assuming you've got a problem with someone and you know you are friends with that person let the grudge out don't let it eat you...talk to them say how you feel it makes things easier.... Life is once oo no second time....
Till next week
