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Today I'll be writing about common sense in our RELATIONSHIPS!!!! this really goes out to the girls than to the guys. I really mourn the death of common sense in the relationship of today because we seem to get a lot of things wrong.
5 tips on common sense
1. Never mourn your singleness
2. Never take your heart on a journey without your brain
3. Every relationship must be defined; an undefined relationship is a DANGEROUS! relationship
4. Never wave away warning signals
5. Never look down on anyone
6. Don't sacrifice your future on the altar of temp pleasure
Common Sense Tip 1: Never mourn your singleness
Okay a lot of women feel like there is an essential need for a man in their lives and generally feel that without one they can never be complete, that maybe true, but it depends on the way Amaka carries it on her head than Angela does.
Never allow anyone make you feel inferior just because they are dating or married and you're not. Never compare yourself with that lady that's into this wonderful relationship cause it aint all that glitters is Gold. God didn't create us and say to us marriage is your destiny, God certainly has a bigger plan for you and he put marriage in his own time for you in your life. So why don't you quit worry and build yourself in a wonderful way for that special man. Read books expand your knowledge no one respects dumb woman
Common sense Tip 2: Never take your heart on a journey without your brain
Ladies!!! shine your eyes!!! shone your brain!! shine your heart!!! Be alert! Never allow your emotions override your sense of reasoning giving the fact that women are very irrational beings. Be a different woman like
+Steve Harvey (SteveHarveyTV) will say act like a lady but certainly think like a man. When you allow your heart be the driver and your heart the passenger in the journey of your destiny accidents are inevitable. Lets take an example
If your man is an abuser, does not appreciate you, does not even allow you be the woman you really are SISTER!! He aint meant for you.
Another lady comes in and says " oh my fiancee is in India" "my boo is in Canada" " my hobby is in France" and all these ladies have is a phone number or an email address if you're on like that you're a fool of the 21st century. I mean place value on yourself because that relationship is as cheap as changing phone numbers or email address.
You've been going out with a guy and his not introduced you to anyone important in his life? Girl you're sure is wasting your time... that dude is a time waster.
Common sense Tip 3: Every relationship must be defined an undefined relationship is a DANGEROUS relationship
If you do not define a relationship you give room for assumptions, and assumptions is the lowest level of wisdom. Love is not blind if you think love is blind marriage will open your eyes. When you get married and especially if its to the wrong person its reality.com. Do not allow one guy that has not defined his relationship with you monopolize your life. Th niggah is just browsing the website without downloading stopping other potential browsers come into the webpage. Chics be like " Wale we've been seeing each other for the past 3months i really want to know what we define this as" and he goes " the past 3 months have been great i don't really know but lets see how it goes". Better take a u-turn and runaway cause you aint a keeper for him. You don't want to see how it goes you want to know if your dating or its a fling as much as the truth hurts a little honesty goes a long way.
Common sense Tip 4: Never wave away warning signals
God never allows anything to befall us without giving you a warning signal. This one is very funny because even when our creator is waving the obvious in our face we just don't want to see it. If you're that lady and you're on a hunt for marriage and your man dissapears during the holidays, doesn't take you to his house, doesn't introduce you to anyone special, only calls you that T.G.I.F Fridays and etc and even when he introduces you he's like 'this is Dolapo' with no title when you know you're obviously dating or when his such a jerk and goes ahead and says 'this is my friend" are you guys friends?!!!".
You've been disturbing him you want to go to his house and one day he just pops up and says okay lets go and finally you reach the house and you go into the kitchen and you see the well furnished kitchen with all the things women like to put in their kitchen and you go to the parlor and all you see on the walls are nails..... abeg is nail a decoration!!??? that man definately has a woman in his life.
The one that baffles me is when women that are not yet married to some men get beaten up brutally ........ and these women run back to the men and all they do among loved ones who obviously care about them is cry and say ' I love him' .... AHHHHHH!!! is that love.... beating up property he hasn't paid bride price for?
OR the guys that over drink and smoke and when asked by their girlfriends they give an excuse of being put under pressure. See this life is full of pressure. If his over drinking and smoking now and beating you up even before you settle down you're signing your death certificate.
All these men that will using terms like 'GOLD DIGGER' just to hide the fact that they are stingy!!!!! you're dating a guy and he doesnt even ask if you need anything, its time for valentine and he breaks up with you a week before then gets back after the holiday, or when you bring down your pride and ask him for money for credit he changes the topic and tells you a story of a friend that suffered from a gold digging girl and his like thank God you"re not like that....... to me thats bulls!! i feel a real man isn't supposed to wait till his gf or wife or fiancee ask him for something his supposed to genuinely know that she has needs and fulfill em even if its not the whole thing the little you give goes a long way...... and ladies too learn to also give your men presents too.... anyone feeling me?
Common sense Tip 5: Never look down on anyone.
You are not your house,car what you wear, the amount of money you have.... trust me the packaging might be good but its the content that matters. Everyone preaches the word about never comparing yourself with another person. Every single being has his own race to run, a different race, a different destiny, a different goal but one end men! its not how fast its how well. Even God is interested with the ones that ended the race and not the ones that started it ...... you never really know every bodies stories so don't judge, don't hate, dint criticize, do not look down, just be you. A book i once read says wisdom comes from studying others but enlightenment is studying one's self. FORGET! about placing your yardstick with the other fella concentrate on yourself ignite the real YOU! in you.
Common sense Tip 6: Don't sacrifice your future on the altar for temporary pleasure
Sin & sex
is pleasurable but also deadly the pleasure is for a moment but the consequence is eternal... the thing about temptations is that it goes for our weakness things we'll easily fall for it lures us into a part that we are willing to take but actually don't know how far we want to go. This last tip goes for mostly teenage girls..... Adults keep on ranting about the things we don't need at the moment in life but we see it as just 'all na talk' some of us are lucky we get away with the bad stuff but the naive ones get caught in some kinda loop hole. I feel every teenage girl should really sit down and think about every relationship shes about to go into ask all the questions before making any damn decisions or better off wait and see other peoples mistakes and learn from em ..... just be wise add a little common sense!
